No man wants to be ‘that guy.’ What I mean by ‘that guy’ is the guy who is forced to wait for weeks or months before a woman allows him to have sex with her for the first time, when you know in the back of your head that other men were able to have sex with this same woman within a few days or maybe even a few hours when this woman was younger.” Next to women’s perceived promiscuity in the eyes of many men, another factor that has seemed to contribute to why many women are not married by the age of 36 is because many women themselves have placed a high degree of emphasis on higher education and career success in their younger years. For even those couples who are married, both parents must work forty or more hours per week in order to maintain a decent lifestyle. Sometimes I feel like I am 60 at the age of 39.” One additional problem going on in society today is that not only do many men who are past the age of 40 have very little interest in dating women close to their own age (preferring instead to pursue women who are between roughly 25 and 35), but many women feel the same way when it comes to casual (non-relationship) sex with men, preferring to engage in no-strings-attached sex with men who are much younger.
One sister, who is 39 years of age and in possession of an MBA degree who lives in Atlanta said in a recent conversation with me, “Alan, back in the day, many women could afford to be a stay-at-home-mother and traditional housewife because the way the (national) economy was, a two-parent family with two or three children could survive on just the man’s earned income. I personally have been so engrossed with career advancement that I never took time to really invest in finding a soulmate, but now that I feel ready to settle down with Mr. One sister, who I know who resides in Manhattan, informed me that when it comes to spending time with men in a strictly sexual manner, her strong preference is for men who are 29 years of age or younger.
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For more information, visit https://the21convention.org/arc Alan Roger Currie is the author of a number of e Books, paperbacks, and audiobooks, and is best known for the ground-breaking best-seller "Mode One: Let the Women Know What You're REALLY Thinking"; Currie is also a professional Men's Dating Coach who has worked with clients all over the world, and has conducted speaking engagements and workshops in many cities both in the U.
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In addition to this, we also give readers useful dating tips on what you are looking for, and what you should avoid when making your choice.Unless Black men and Black women return to making marriage and the idea of raising a family a top priority while they are still between the ages of 24 and 29, or at minimum, between 30 and 35, very few middle-aged and older singles will be exchanging vows in the years to come.Consequently, the traditional family structure – as we once knew it in the 20th Century – will die a slow and painful death.There are even far more single women available in the 56-61 age group than there are in the 18-25 and 26-31 combined. Among most heterosexual men, the appeal of a woman’s strictly sexual companionship will always remain fairly high, assuming the women have been blessed with a reasonably attractive face and have managed to keep their figure reasonably shapely.The problem in today’s society is that a high percentage of eligible Bachelors have very little if any desire to spend a significant amount of time with middle-aged and older women when sexual enjoyment and orgasmic satisfaction are nowhere in the picture.