He will find a way to introduce you to family and friends.Don’t worry whether friends and family will approve of you.Over the last few years I've received hundreds of emails from women dating widowers.From them I’ve noticed some patterns of behavior that indicate the widower isn’t ready for a serious relationship and just using the woman to temporarily fill the void created by the death of his late wife.Your only concern is whether or not the widower is embarrassed to tell others about you.You Remind the Widower of His Late Wife Widowers are naturally attracted to people that remind them of their recently departed wife.One of the big adjustments widowers have to make when they become serious with another woman is realizing that you come with your own unique habits and ways of doing things.Widowers who can’t remember that you’re a different person are a ticking time bomb.
There is mild cursing, sometimes about body parts, but it's often of the "What the hell? Participants are asked to be honest about their feelings toward their dates; it may make some viewers uncomfortable to watch feelings get hurt.
The danger here is that he’ll want you to be the late wife and once he realizes you can’t be the woman he still loves, the relationship will come to a crashing end.
He Constantly Compares You to His Late Wife People are creatures of habit.
If the widower you’re dating has one or more of the red flags below, don’t take it to mean that the relationship is doomed or that that issues can’t be resolved.
However, keep your eyes open to potential problems before giving too much of your heart to him.